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What should I wear on the day?

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Formal attire, please note the bridal party will be wearing blue.

What time should I arrive?

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Day guests can arrive from 1pm and need to be seated in the ceremony hall by 1.30pm.

Is there parking available?

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Yes there is ample parking at Bourton Hall.

What will I be eating during the wedding breakfast?

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When you RSVP to our wedding, you will be able to choose from a vegetarian or meat dish for your starter and main. We have selected the dessert for everyone. If you have any specific dietary requirements, please let us know and we can provide you with separate menu choices.

When should we RSVP by?

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To help us with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, the deadline is December 2025.

Can I share photos on social media?

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As a couple we do not use social media. While we do not mind some photos being posted, we ask that you do this a few days after the wedding and consider the fact that we will not see your post ourselves.

Is there a gift list?

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Your presence on our special day is the greatest gift. If you’d like to help us celebrate, we’d greatly appreciate contributions towards our honeymoon fund.

Are children invited?

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To allow all guests to relax and enjoy themselves, we have chosen to make our special day adults only, other than immediate family.

Where can I smoke or vape?

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There will be an allocated smoking/vape area outside. Please refrain from smoking or vaping in any other areas as we do not want smoke or clouds in our lovely photos.

What time can I check in and out, if staying at Bourton Hall?

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If we have invited you to stay at Bourton Hall, you may check into your room at 12pm on the day of our wedding. Breakfast will be served in the morning and check out is at 10am.

What time will the evening party end?

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The evening party will end at midnight. We ask all guests not staying at Bourton Hall to book a taxi for 11.30pm.

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Honeymoon Fund

Your presence on our special day is the greatest gift. If you’d like to help us celebrate, we’d greatly appreciate contributions towards our honeymoon fund.